I understand you are evaluating other offers as well. How can we differentiate ourselves for you?
'Differenziarci' = dif-fe-ren-TSAR-chi; the 'ci' here is a reflexive pronoun.
Use when a client mentions they are comparing you with a competitor, to acknowledge the comparison and invite a conversation about your unique value.
Acknowledging competition without fear is a sign of confidence. 'Come possiamo differenziarci per lei?' (How can we differentiate ourselves for you?) is client-centric — it asks what matters to them specifically, rather than launching into a generic competitor comparison.
Cosa conta di più per lei nella scelta del fornitore?
What matters most to you in choosing a supplier?
Open question to discover decision criteria
Rispetto alla concorrenza, il nostro punto di forza è...
Compared to the competition, our strength is...
Direct differentiation statement
Cosa dovrebbe offrirle il nostro servizio per essere la scelta giusta?
What would our service need to offer you to be the right choice?
Ideal outcome question; very client-centric
Italian clients are cautious and thorough — 'ci devo pensare' (I need to think about it) is very common. They often compare multiple suppliers extensively before deciding. A supplier who welcomes the comparison and asks the right questions tends to win more often than one who dismisses or fears it.