C1 — Advanced❤️ Love & Family
Tirare le fila di una relazione
To be in control of a relationship
Literal Translation
"To pull the threads of a relationship"
What it means
To be in control of a relationship; to manage it behind the scenes. Used when one partner clearly has more power or control in the relationship. Can be stated admiringly, critically, or humorously.
Example in context
"È lei che tira le fila — lui fa quello che lei decide."
"She is the one pulling the strings — he does what she decides."
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