About taste there is no arguing. The famous Latin 'de gustibus non est disputandum' in its Milanese form — acknowledging that personal preferences are beyond rational debate.
The Lombard formulation of this ancient principle carries a distinctly practical flavour: where the Latin version is a philosophical statement, the Milanese one is a conversation-stopper used daily in markets, households, and workshops. Milan's fashion industry, which came to dominate global style in the 20th century through houses such as Versace, Armani, Prada, and Missoni, might seem to contradict this proverb by insisting on certain aesthetic standards. But the fashion world's own internal debates about what constitutes good taste proved the proverb's point — even among professionals, taste resists definition. The saying is invoked to end arguments gracefully, particularly in families where different generations disagree about food, music, and furnishings. It is also used ironically to conclude discussions about political and cultural preferences that have grown too heated.
The Milanese version of the Latin 'de gustibus non est disputandum'; the formula was widely used in the mercantile culture of medieval Milan where transactions involving aesthetic goods required a neutral framework for dispute resolution.
Ending an argument about music preferences
Tu ami il metal, io amo l'opera. De gust no se disputa — mettiamo qualcosa di neutro.
You love metal, I love opera. About taste there is no arguing — let's put on something neutral.
A designer responding to criticism of his work
Non a tutti piace il mio stile. De gust no se disputa — e io continuo a fare quello che faccio.
Not everyone likes my style. About taste there is no arguing — and I continue to do what I do.
A mother accepting her daughter's unusual decor
La casa è tua e non capisco quei colori, ma de gust no se disputa.
It's your house and I don't understand those colours, but about taste there is no arguing.
Two friends disagreeing about restaurants
Per te il miglior ristorante di Milano è quello? Per me è un altro. De gust no se disputa.
For you the best restaurant in Milan is that one? For me it's another. About taste there is no arguing.