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PhrasesMeeting the FamilyPiacere di conoscerla.
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Piacere di conoscerla.

Pleased to meet you. (formal)

Pronunciation

PIA-ce-re di co-NOS-cer-la — stress on 'pia-', 'nos-'. 'Piacere' has four syllables: PIA-ce-re.

When to use it

The essential formal greeting when meeting parents or elderly relatives of a partner. Always use 'lei' (formal) with parents unless invited to use 'tu'.

What it means

'Piacere di conoscerla' = pleased to meet you (formal). 'Conoscerla' uses the formal 'lei' — 'conoscere' + 'la'. This is the correct form for a first meeting with elders. Switching to informal too soon can be seen as disrespectful.

Variations

Felice di conoscerla finalmente.

Happy to finally meet you.

'Finalmente' adds warmth — your partner has talked about them and you are glad to now put a face to the name

Ho sentito molto parlare di lei.

I've heard a lot about you (formal).

Shows their child talks about them fondly — very well received

È un piacere poter fare la sua conoscenza.

It's a pleasure to make your acquaintance.

Very formal — appropriate for very traditional or older families

Mini Dialogue

— Mamma, papà — vi presento Marco. — Piacere di conoscerla, signora. E lei, signore. — Il piacere è nostro! Entra, entra — abbiamo sentito molto parlare di te. — Grazie — ho portato qualcosa per voi.

— Mum, Dad — meet Marco. — Pleased to meet you, signora. And you, signore. — The pleasure is ours! Come in, come in — we've heard a lot about you. — Thank you — I've brought something for you.

Cultural Note

Meeting the family ('la famiglia') is one of the most significant steps in Italian relationships. Italian parents hold enormous social authority and their approval matters deeply. Arriving with a gift, using formal titles, and being visibly respectful sets the tone for everything that follows.