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Posso stare vicino al mio familiare durante la visita?

Can I stay with my family member during the visit?

Pronunciation

vi-CI-no — three syllables, stress on second. 'Familiare' — fa-mi-LYA-re.

When to use it

Ask the doctor or nurse when accompanying a family member. Many Italian patients prefer to have a relative present during consultations.

What it means

'Stare vicino a' = to stay close to. 'Durante la visita' = during the visit/consultation. Italian medical culture increasingly supports patient advocacy by family members, especially for elderly, children, and anxious patients. Doctors may ask the patient first whether they consent to the family member being present.

Variations

Mia madre non capisce bene l'italiano. Posso tradurre per lei?

My mother does not understand Italian well. Can I translate for her?

Family translation role — commonly accepted in Italian hospitals

Mio padre è anziano e si confonde. Posso stare con lui?

My father is elderly and gets confused. Can I stay with him?

Advocating for a vulnerable family member — Italian hospitals generally allow this

Il paziente ha chiesto che io sia presente.

The patient has asked that I be present.

The patient's explicit request is the strongest argument for family presence

Mini Dialogue

— Posso stare vicino a mia nonna durante la visita? — Prima devo chiederle. Signora, è d'accordo che sua nipote sia presente? — Sì, preferisco così. Mi rassicura. — Perfetto. Prego, entri. — Grazie. Ho delle domande da fare al medico anche io. — Bene. Le rispondo volentieri.

— Can I stay with my grandmother during the visit? — First I need to ask her. Madam, do you agree that your granddaughter is present? — Yes, I prefer it that way. It reassures me. — Perfect. Please come in. — Thank you. I also have questions to ask the doctor. — Good. I am happy to answer them.

Cultural Note

Italian family medicine culture ('medicina di famiglia') places the family at the centre of patient care. The concept of 'caregiver familiare' (family caregiver) is legally recognised in Italy — family members often provide home care after hospitalisation. Italian hospitals generally welcome family participation, especially for paediatric and geriatric patients. Post-COVID, family presence during medical visits has become more restricted but is still valued culturally.