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Come sta la famiglia?

How is the family?

Pronunciation

'Famiglia' = fa-MEE-lya — the 'gl' produces a palatal sound like 'ly' in 'million'. Three syllables.

When to use it

Ask someone you know — a neighbour, colleague, or acquaintance — about their family. Family is central to Italian identity and asking about it shows genuine personal interest.

What it means

'Come sta' uses the formal-register verb form (third person singular) — appropriate even in informal contexts when asking about another person's family. 'La famiglia' takes the definite article when used possessively in context.

Variations

Come stanno i tuoi?

How is your family? (lit. 'How are your people?')

'I tuoi' = 'your people' — very colloquial and warm Italian way to refer to family.

Come sta tua moglie?

How is your wife?

Specific to a known family member — shows you remember details about their life.

I bambini crescono?

Are the children growing up?

Warm, slightly nostalgic — typical Italian small talk among parents.

Mini Dialogue

— Come sta la famiglia? — Bene, grazie! Mia figlia ha iniziato il liceo quest'anno. — Già! Com'è andata la prima settimana? — Benissimo! È entusiasta.

— How is the family? — Well, thank you! My daughter started high school this year. — Already! How did the first week go? — Very well! She's enthusiastic.

Cultural Note

Italian children starting 'liceo' (academic high school at around 14) is a significant family milestone. Italian parents invest deeply in their children's education and are proud to discuss academic progress.