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PhrasesTexting and Messaging in ItalianCiao! Come stai? Tutto bene?
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Ciao! Come stai? Tutto bene?

Hi! How are you? All good?

Pronunciation

Reading aloud: stress 'CIa-o', 'CO-me', 'TUT-to'. In texting, 'cmq' = comunque, 'tvb' = ti voglio bene.

When to use it

This is the standard Italian text message opener between friends and family. Send this to check in with someone you haven't heard from in a while.

What it means

'Come stai?' = how are you? 'Tutto bene?' = all good? The double question is very characteristic of Italian texting — it shows genuine interest. In WhatsApp, Italians often use just 'Ciao!' with a wave emoji or a 'Ciao, ci sei?' to check if someone is available.

Variations

Ciao, come va?

Hi, how's it going?

Slightly more casual alternative.

Tutto ok?

Everything ok?

Shorter, very common check-in.

Sei vivo/a? 😄

Are you alive? 😄

Humorous way to reach someone who's been quiet.

Mini Dialogue

— Ciao! Come stai? Tutto bene? — Ciao! Bene grazie, un po' stanca. E tu? — Bene anche io. Ci sentiamo stasera? — Sì! Mandami un messaggio.

— Hi! How are you? All good? — Hi! Fine thanks, a bit tired. And you? — Fine too. Shall we chat tonight? — Yes! Message me.

Cultural Note

Italian text conversations typically begin with greetings before getting to the point, even in messaging. Jumping straight to a request without a 'ciao' first is considered abrupt. This mirrors face-to-face Italian social norms where small talk ('converazione') is an essential social lubricant.